Kate knew Ben was the one at a very unlikely moment. One day in 2014, when Kate spent a week at Ben‘s apartment in Clinton Hill, Brooklyn, he was on hold with his phone company, “making the silly faces he does while waiting for something,” and it hit her, “oh, wow, I love him.” As simple as it was, it was a definite and exciting feeling. Ben knew Kate was the one on February 13, 2014 while at a Darius Rucker concert. He explained to her this feeling of amazing and complete comfort around her, which he had never felt with anyone else.